Male Literacy is in Decline…

STEM, the acronym for Science Technology Engineering and Math, came into common usage in the early 2000s fueled in part by a 1983 report called “A Nation at Risk” that highlighted the need for educational reform with increased emphasis on STEM subjects. I don’t think you can blame it on the Russians—and Sputnik in particular—but falling behind “the evil empire” in science was a motivating factor.

Today’s Op-Ed in the New York Times, entitled “Attention, Men: Books are Sexy” by Maureen Dowd, is just one of several recent articles lamenting the decline of literacy and literary fiction in current culture. David Brooks offered his assessment, “When Novels Mattered” in the same paper on July 10th, blaming the internet for its decline.

As a Liberal Arts graduate who made his way in the world flying the best engineered fighter and commercial aircraft I don’t know what to say about where the emphasis in education should land. I was a systems operator. I didn’t need to know how to fix a mechanical problem at Mach 2, but I did need to understand its source and what to do about it. Maybe balance is the key.

When I see American men falling behind women educationally and buying into the “warrior” masculinity promoted by Pete Hegseth, the cocksure wrong-headed opinions of Joe Rogan and the complete and utter ignorance of Donald Trump I know the educational system is failing not only men but American society as a whole. And it’s happening at lightening speed. According to an article by David Morris in December 2024, about half the authors on the New York Times fiction best-seller list in 2004 were men. This year the ratio is one-quarter men to three quarters women, with women accounting for 80 percent of fiction sales. I agree with Mr. Morris that “the decline and fall of literary men should worry you.”

Parents in the not too distant past wanted their children to be “well-rounded” by which they meant educated to think critically, and that meant versed in both science and the humanities. If I were emperor of the world I would mandate a liberal arts education for university undergraduates before moving forward with graduate studies in either science or the humanities. If it was good enough for Plato and Aristotle, Leonardo and Spinoza, it should work for your grandkids and mine.

There’s so much to learn from reading fiction at a time when technology, particularly AI, is dominating the news. Mary Shelley’s novel Frankenstein might be a case in point. Victor Frankenstein is a young scientist who creates a monster in a secret scientific experiment. According to Dr. Sabrina Starnaman, clinical assistant professor in the School of Arts and Humanities at the University of Texas, who teaches a class about the book, Frankenstein offers a thought-provoking look at science and ethics.

“Victor Frankenstein had this great idea that his creation would thank him and would honor him and would be glorious. And when his creature came to life, he found it grotesque and monstrous and terrifying,” she said. “Mary Shelley was not just exploring the technological questions, but also the human questions.”

Frankenstein is a cautionary tale. But the reason to read fiction is more than finding a useful tool to deal with technology. It expands horizons, encourages creative thinking and emotional intelligence—all of which can be applied in our “activities of daily living.” And…it’s pleasurable and adds balance to our otherwise stressful contemporary lives.

Live it up. Read a book. Get lost in it. “Don’t think too much. It’s bad for the ball club.”

Over the Long Haul…

Homer. Leonardo da Vinci. Paul Simon. Picasso. Roger Federer. Mark Twain. Theodore Roethke. Josef Haydn. Toko Shinoda. Norman Maclean. James Taylor. Ernest Hemingway. Helen Frankenthaler. Bob Dylan. Arthur Ashe. Eva Cassidy. Thomas Keller and Jose Andres.

What’s the thread that links them? I can’t really explain it. It’s personal. It’s inside of me—but each one has given me something enduring, inspiring, touching and aspirational. Each of them created something enduring. Something to admire. Something beyond the ordinary or even beautiful. Not  one of them is perfect, but each one represents near perfection in their chosen art. They are my touchstones of creative excellence, artistic execution and longevity.

Recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about longevity, durability, resilience, creativity and balance. Reflecting on how certain artists imbue their art and artistry with an almost super-human quality. I’m nearing the end of my ninth decade. I try to live in the present but have concerns about the future. The world seems to tilt then recover in ever more dangerous cycles—but it does always seem to recover.

Art is a place of retreat where I find comfort. I look at my list and think about what these artists have given me. When I was younger I thought about the gratification they conferred, but as I aged I began to realize it was not just the beauty of their achievements, it was also their durability and resilience. About their staying power and what makes them last? It’s hard to know with intangibles. What feels different now is that I think about how they have survived and continue to inspire.

I don’t claim any special insight, and we’re all different, but I have a reverence for my favorite books, music, art and artists, the ones that have continued to supply both pleasure and wonder after all these years. 

Last week in an interview, Paul Simon was asked which of his songs he thought would endure. Without hesitation he said he thought The Sound of Silence, written 61 years ago, would make the cut.

Hello darkness, my old friendI’ve come to talk with you againBecause a vision softly creepingLeft its seeds while I was sleepingAnd the vision that was planted in my brainStill remainsWithin the sound of silence

I agree. The Sound of Silence is a classic that has and will continue to endure, but later last week he released a new album called Sacred Psalms, seven hymn-like songs with echoes of the Pachelbel Canon that will bring tears to your eyes. Another example of his genius.

These are the artists that have given me so much pleasure and comfort over the years. I hope in a small way this will encourage you to think about the art and artists that have done that in your life. Step away from the news cycle. Turn off all notifications. Forget about to-do lists and honey-dos. Close your eyes and think of the art and artists that have given you enduring pleasure over time.

I’d love to show you more examples from my list, but I’m going to finish with a poem that has been with me since 1956. Theodore Roethke was one of my teachers at the UW and a stickler for learning classic forms before experimenting with looser less structured forms. This one is a villanelle.

The Waking

I wake to sleep, and take my waking slow.
I feel my fate in what I cannot fear.
I learn by going where I have to go.

We think by feeling. What is there to know?
I hear my being dance from ear to ear.
I wake to sleep, and take my waking slow.

Of those so close beside me, which are you?
God bless the Ground! I shall walk softly there,
And learn by going where I have to go.

Light takes the Tree; but who can tell us how?
The lowly worm climbs up a winding stair;
I wake to sleep, and take my waking slow.

Great Nature has another thing to do
To you and me; so take the lively air,
And, lovely, learn by going where to go.

This shaking keeps me steady. I should know.
What falls away is always. And is near.
I wake to sleep, and take my waking slow.
I learn by going where I have to go.

‘We are all human…’

For decades I used this phrase to convey my heartfelt belief that despite our differences we Americans have one thing in common and that’s that we are all human beings–that there is a commonality to our experience and despite the fact that human nature is flawed everyone is deserving of respect because we are all human. I believed with Anne Frank that “in spite of everything…people are really good at heart” and with Martin Luther King that “ the arc of the moral universe is long but it bends toward justice.”

Those feelings were developed and encouraged by my middle-class Congregationalist parents and nurtured by a solid liberal arts education based on the teachings of great Enlightenment thinkers. My glass was always half-full though it tended toward short term pessimism but long term optimism.

Today I see the phrase “We are all human” differently. I see a continuum that runs from angelic to satanic with humans like Pope Francis and José Andrés at the high end and Elon Musk and Adolf Hitler at the other with the rest of us somewhere in the middle. And that perspective change has all happened in the last ten years.

I try never to trade in hyperbole, but I believe America (and the world) is in serious peril at the moment—a moment not unlike that in 1933 when Hitler was taking control in Germany and cleansing society of what he considered “undesireable elements.” This time the propulsive cleansing is being orchestrated by a profoundly, ignorant and cruel man-child with no interest in anyone’s welfare but his own—who is being manipulated by equally corrupt friends with selfish motiives.

His ignorance and dangerous lack of historical understanding was on stark display last week in the Oval Office where ABC’s Terry Moran, seeing a copy of the Declaration of Independence hanging next to the Resolute Desk, asked him to share his understanding of the meaning of the document. Without irony, his response was,

“Well, it means exactly what it says. It’s a declaration. It’s a declaration of unity and love and respect. And it means a lot. And it’s something very special to our country.”

I’ve always been tempted to make fun of his ignorance. I think of Jimmy Buffett’s Gypsies in the Palace as a metaphor for his cabinet choices and Mel Brooks’ Springtime for Hitler as his theme song, but that was before January 20, 2025. It’s clear from what we observe about him that he’s not smart enough to destroy the country on his own–he’s too busy lining his own pockets and exacting revenge for personal slights—but he is surrounded by a cadre of true believers, including Elon Musk, Stephen Miller and JD Vance who are ready and eager to implement Project 2025 in service to the autocrats in waiting.

Since January 20th, in less than 100 days, USAID has been dismantled and all foreign aid put on hold, and  goon squads from ICE, the FBI, and a secret black-clad militia from Homeland Security are arresting and deporting non-citizens without honoring their due process guarantees, while the rendition and deportation of American citizens is under discussion and birthright citizenship, guaranteed by the Constitution is being challenged.

And domestically, universities are under siege on the pretense that the exercise of free speech i.e. criticism of Israel’s treatment of Palestinians in Gaza, is an expression of anti-semitism. At the same time, law firms are under attack if the administration can tie them to cases in the past where they opposed the president, represented an adversary or challenged his policies.

Funding for Head Start, Meals on Wheels, PBS and NPR are under attack. Health and Human Services is shredding the NIH, CDC and other disease control and medical services including foreign aid to treat AIDS, malaria, and polio. Funding for scientific research  and anything related to climate change has been withheld. Science itself is under attack, and the Department of Education has been gutted.

And, perhaps most troubling is their abject concern with anything smacking of diversity, equity or inclusion and their attempt to erase and rewrite history the American experience by eliminating any reference to the horrors of the Holocaust and our African-American past that casts whites in an unflattering light at the two Smithsonian museums dedicated to their history.

The capper for me, however, is not any of the above. It is his demented attachment to the military—the military he lied and cheated to avoid—and now wants to have honor him with a big birthday parade with tanks and missiles like the one he observed in Paris or those in Moscow and Pyongyang. All this after eliminating Veterans Affairs programs, firing Veterans Affairs employees (including many veterans) and cutting benefits.

So many of us are asking what we can do to turn this anti-democratic tide around. Much of country, including the media, is threatened and intimidated by the tsunami of authoritarian acts and action. My wife is worried it may even extend to things like this blog. As a Marine veteran, former lawyer, and believer in free speech I can’t stay silent. I applaud all the Hands Off events, the courage of law firms like Perkins Coie, universities like Harvard, companies like Costco, and anyone else who fights the authoritarian push and attack on democratic (small d) principles. This is not about me or my wife. We’ll be fine. This is for our children, grandchildren, and all the poor, diverse, and unincluded Americans who are at risk. Don’t let this ignorant blowhard get away with it. Remember the humanity of Pope Francis not the inhumane acts of Elon and the autocrats.

Epilogue: This morning before I posted this I learned that today on Cinco de Mayo, the man-child emperor-to-be has exempted avocados/guacamole from his Mexican tariffs and will renovate Alcatraz for political prisoners. Viva!!!

Updated Profiles in Courage…

My first presidential election was in 1960, and I voted for John F. Kennedy. Kennedy was handsome, charismatic, literate, and a WWII naval hero. I was a newly commissioned Marine Corps fighter pilot and the world was full of promise.

Five years earlier Kennedy published Profiles in Courage, a book celebrating eight US Senators who had exhibited courage in the face of adversity and opposition. They included John Quincy Adams, Daniel Webster, Sam Houston as well as some whose names you wouldn’t recognize today. But Kennedy chose these men (yes, they were all men) from different eras of American history because he admired their integrity and principled action.

1960 was a prosperous, peaceful era in American history. It wasn’t perfect. The country was still sorting out the damage of WWII, playing Cold War chess with Russia, and watching China emerge from its own civil war. Nevertheless, all things considered, there was a balance of power in world geopolitics, and our economy was booming, 

Our 2025 world is dramatically different. The world order that held us in balance for 70 years is now unbalanced and there is a surging tide of autocracy worldwide. Here, in the US, the 47th president is doing his best to destroy most of what has made America the wealthiest, most powerful and respected nation on the planet—free elections, a two party system, investigative journalism, a free press, arts and humanities, technology, jurisprudence, the military, veterans, immigration, universities, law firms, clean energy, national parks, healthcare, cutting edge medicine, scientific research and science itself. 

It’s notable that there is an abundance of courage in America today, but the hubris, greed and cowardice of those in power has us on our heels. They are doing everything possible to undermine our democracy and strip us of our rights. It’s time to update Profiles in Courage in order to remind ourselves that we are still strong and determined. 

My updated list has twelve other names, but Thomas Sipp, a courageous young attorney you’ve probably never heard of is my #1 candidate, because he recently resigned in protest when the firm he was working for, Skadden, Arps, Slate, Meagher & Flom LLP, one of America’s most prestigious law firms, took a knee and kissed the king’s ring (offering him $100,000,000 (yes, $100 million) in free legal services to support his causes).

Mr. Sipp is 26 years old, of mixed race, and came to this country without English language skills at age 10. He’s an American success story in the old fashioned sense. He mastered the language, attended the University of Texas and Columbia Law School and became a US Senate intern before carefully weighing the offers he received from several of America’s best law firms. He has always admired Barack Obama’s achievements and identifies with his mixed race story, so after careful consideration Mr. Sipp chose Skadden Arps. It seemed the best fit for him, because its policy allowed charitable pro bono hours to count toward an associate’s compensation package–something many firms wouldn’t consider. He was “all in” and decided to pay a little bit more in rent for a slightly worse apartment so he could be close to the office. Big law means long hours for an associate. He was there early and stayed late, but he loved what he did.

But things changed when the administration listed Skadden Arps as one of 20 firms under investigation for their practices related to diversity, equity, and inclusion. He couldn’t believe it but never imagined the firm would capitulate to the intimidation threat. But…it did, and when it did it caused Mr. Sipp to spend an agonizing weekend crafting a response to the firm’s leadership. That response ended up being his resignation letter – recently featured on The Daily, the NY Times current events podcast.  https://www.nytimes.com/2025/04/10/podcasts/the-daily/trump-law-firms-skadden.html?auth=login-google1tap&login=google1tap When asked about it he said:

Personally, I felt ashamed to work at Skadden, and that was such a new experience because of how prestigious the law firm is. And then, suddenly, in the blink of an eye and just a few days, hours even, like my whole view of the firm has been completely tainted.

Can you explain why? Is it the specifics around pro bono work, which I know is so important to you? But what precisely is making you feel the shame?

It’s a mix of things. This is giving the president a P.R. win after being bullied. So it seems like I’m working at a firm that isn’t as high caliber as it said it was. But more importantly than that, so many lawyers agree that what the president is doing is wrong, trying to punish his enemies and then coerce any law firm who he perceives as an enemy to either himself or to his circle, from being able to represent clients who might be against them. 

I have no doubt that Mr. Sipp will find another place with a top firm, like Perkins Coie, that is resisting the administration’s assault on perceived law firm enemies. Perkins has sued and is supported by 500 other firms unwilling to cave and capitulate. More Profiles in Courage.

Note of Caution: As my friend, Jack Alkire, a former Perkins Coie partner noted, “To date not a single partner in any of AmLaw’s top 200 firms has resigned over the Trump business.” These big earners are held in position by their firm’s “Golden Handcuffs” – the promise of a giant paycheck. For example,  Data from BCG Attorney Search shows the Skadden Arps profits per equity partner in 2009 were $2,160,000, placing them in the 88th percentile. That’s the future Mr. Sipp gave up and the hold major firms have on their equity partners.

Here’s my current updated list of Profiles in Courage (who’s on your list?)

  • Jose Andres – World Central Kitchen – feeding the world
  • Mark Kelly – US Senator, fighter pilot, astronaut from Arizona
  • MacKenzie Bezos – philanthropist focusing on women, poverty and community solutions
  • Janet Trafton Mills – Governor of Maine who sued the DOJ over Title IX violations
  • Doctors without Borders – working worldwide to provide medical services in war zones
  • Melinda French Gates – philanthropist supporting education, health and equity for women
  • Liz Cheney and Adam Kinsinger – former US Representatives who told the truth about January 6, 2021
  • Volodymyr Zelensky – President of Ukraine resisting Russia’s invasion of his country
  • Harvard University – fighting for university independence 
  • Nicole Malachowski – first woman to fly with the Thunderbirds air demonstration team (and whose service was recently deleted from the Thunderbird website.)

I’m determined to be positive in the face of this assault on our values, institutions, and the rule of law. I could have turned the tables and submitted a Profiles in Cowardice list instead, but I want to go back to the optimism I felt in 1960 when I cast my vote for JFK. I want Americans rise up and respond to his call for action: “Ask not what your country can do for you. Ask what you can do for your country.” On this day in 1775, the first shots of the American Revolution were fired at Lexington and Concord. That should be all we need to rise to the occasion. Amen.

Life and Death and the Whole Damn Thing…

“The dead dwell in the conditional tense of the unreal.”

You’ve probably never heard of David Siegel or Scott McGehee, but you will. They are business partners, screenwriters, directors, and filmmakers who’ve made eight feature films over the last 30 years—titles that include The Montana Story, What Maisie Knew, The Deep End, and Bee Season. All well worth seeing.

They make the kind of films I love—small, , thought provoking, literary, and independent. But I might never have heard of them either but for the fact that my friend, Dave Northfield, is one of Siegel’s best friends and the two of them stayed at my apartment in Berlin after graduating from UC Berkeley in the early 80s. 

I’m telling you this because Siegel and McGehee’s latest effort is in theaters now. It’s an adaptation of Sigrid Nunez’s 2018 National Book Award winning novel The Friend, and If you didn’t read the book, you can see the film. Don’t miss it. It will help you get through these difficult times. I loved the book when I read it two years ago, and I’m going to see the film for a second time this week. 

I never imagined the book could be made into a film but they did it. It’s quirky, thoughtful,  touching, and deeply moving. Naomi Watts, Bill Murray, and Bing (an enormously talented and mournful Great Dane) are its stars.

Watts plays Iris, a single writer/teacher, who lives in a rent controlled apartment in Manhattan. Murray plays Walter, her friend and mentor, who (spoiler alert) commits suicide, and Bing plays Apollo, the dog Walter leaves behind. None of his three former wives is willing to take Bing and by default all agree he should go with Iris. Quirky enough? 

Iris’s problem is that dogs are not allowed in her apartment building. She has the best intentions but is having a hard time finding another home for Apollo. It’s a high wire act as she fends off the super, the building’s board, snarky neighbors and Apollo’s overwhelming presence in her small apartment while she searches for a solution but inevitably falls in love with the dog.

My friend, Jack Livings, who teaches creative writing at Princeton and Stanford hopes the film will bring Nunez the celebrity she deserves. I agree. She does a masterful job of creating a meditation on what a friend of mine calls “life and death and the whole damn thing.” Iris is mourning the loss of Walter and angry about the suicide, but it’s Apollo who brings life’s finite nature and the importance of relationships home to her. 

Important note: More than one review of the film has mentioned that some potential viewers have said they couldn’t watch it if the dog dies. FYI: We all die, but the dog does not die in the movie.

Iris manages in a creative way to overcome her problem keeping Apollo in the apartment but has another problem. She’s come to love him, but big dogs have short life spans. For Great Danes it’s six to ten years. Apollo is five when he comes to her and a year later there is a pivotal “come to Jesus” scene. 

In the city a short time ago a scary thing happened. It was scorching, the first really bad day of the season, and we were headed for the shade of the park. But before we could get there, and though we hadn’t gone far, you stopped, you buckled and sank to the concrete clearly distressed.

I  nearly panicked, thought I was going to lose you right then right there. 

How kind people were. Someone dashed into a coffee bar and came back with a bowl of cold water which you drank greedily without getting up. Then a woman passing by stopped, took out an umbrella and stood holding it open to shield you from the sun; it’s OK if I’m late for work, she said. A man driving by offered us a ride, but I knew you’d have trouble climbing into the backseat, and by then thankfully you’d revived and we were able to walk home.

Now every time I walk you my heart is in my throat.

Later, at the beach house where she and Apollo are spending the summer, she has her epiphany and finds peace.

So let’s think no more about it. Let’s look to this day, and only this day. This gift of a perfect summer morning.

One more summer. At least you got that.

One more summer to lie stretched out and contented in the sun.

And, at least I get to say goodbye.

This is Naomi Watt’s film. Except for two short scenes where Walter is the focus. She is part of every scene in the 120 minute film. It’s a bravura performance without drama. I think it’s Oscar worthy. She may be up  against Bing or maybe they will both win—he for Best Actor and she for Best Actress. And to complete the sweep Bill Murray wins for Best Supporting Actor and Siegel and McGehee get the Best Adapted Screenplay. I’d vote for that.

Go see it. You won’t be disappointed.